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“hold off, Is it a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 107: enjoy isn’t a lay | Autostraddle

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Rub out those split tears because we will explain to you that love just isn’t a lie! Recently there is Autostraddle publisher and all around icon
Heather Hogan
writing about the girl 11 year(!!) connection together with her partner and all circumstances future relationships.

But initially! We celebrate getting reunited — after an eventful summer! — and play a casino game of guess the tv series from fanfic.


SHOW NOTES

+ In case you are an A+ member, you can read
this massive crossover fanfic
the Autostraddle television Team jointly blogged,  such as the Buffy/Faith/Nia Nal threesome we concocted.

+ one of the primary parts we wrote for Autostraddle was
this essay about period among

Fleabag.

+ Another reason as an A+ member: this
special check Heather and Stacy’s marriage!

+ I like communication but
as Vanessa outlined right here
there can be such a thing as too-much handling.

+ if you need an additional look into my mindset that just because a relationship comes to an end doesn’t mean it was not important,
discover my personal favorite article
I have ever before created.



Heather:

We stayed the actual entire night, that will be simply so from fictional character both for of us. And I believe it had been only, it’s really indicative of our own commitment, i believe, where it had been similar to, this really is awesome. Let us simply do the next matter. This is so fun. Why don’t we simply do the following point. And I think’s just been precisely how our commitment’s already been for like 11 decades. Every step recently been like, “This component’s great. What is the the next thing we’re able to do?” therefore, yeah.


Theme track plays


Drew:

Hi, I Am Drew.


Christina:

And I’m Christina.


Drew:

And thank you for visiting,

Hold off, Is This a romantic date?


Christina:


Wait, Is This a night out together?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast specialized in the burning concern: wait, is it a date? Where Drew and I discover all sorts of things about online dating. What exactly is matchmaking, what’sn’t dating. And extremely only have a grand adventure, I would say.


Drew:

I would in addition point out that it’s been a huge adventure to date and will remain. I’m called Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle and a filmmaker and a trans lesbian. And that I wish to have something totally new to increase the combine. I never can consider any such thing brand-new. In my opinion those are my personal identities.


Christina:

Often identification doesn’t alter, despite just what TikTok will say to you.


Drew:

I Am Jewish.


Christina:

Yeah. I Am Talking About like—


Drew:

Type of. After all, yeah. No, I’m not religious, but that is also section of my identity. You’ll be able to inform from my hair.


Christina:

Withn’t altered though, I suppose.


Drew:

That I’m Jewish?


Christina:

Yeah. You’ve been Jewish.


Drew:

No, I’ve been Jewish. Yeah, that don’t occur between the two episodes. Really, that are you, Christina?


Christina:

I’m Christina. I am in addition a writer at Autostraddle. A loud homosexual on the web. I am actually looking forward to the advent of Princess Diana season, AKA bicycle short pants and sweatshirts. That is where i am trying to end up being. I’m in Philadelphia, making it 96 degrees today. Therefore we’re gradually obtaining truth be told there. It’s simply like i would like it at this time. It’s my perfect time. I do want to end up being a primary character for the autumn, and it’s perhaps not taking place but.


Drew:

Yeah. Well, what’s interesting that you are revealing just now is, therefore for our audience, this has been per week since all of our final event, that is what it constantly is. But for united states, we actually recorded the initial six symptoms even as we had been locating the voice and creating this new podcast. We taped that in advance, but now we are very current. So this is like we’ve had an entire summer time. So we haven’t taped in months and then we’ve already been as much as all kinds of things


Christina:

Uncharted region. The last time we taped, we hadn’t met. We have now came across face-to-face.


Drew:

That’s true! Yes!


Christina:

Drew was at my ding, dang home, merely chilling out.


Drew:

Yes!


Christina:

I’d merely awake and become like, “Well, appear, which is Drew over there.”


Drew:

Thus wonderful.


Christina:

It was actually wonderful.


Drew:

You really have this type of a lovely house.


Christina:

Thank you. Its a homosexual turmoil house and in addition we like it very dearly. Yeah. Therefore we’re just on a unique quest and it is actually interesting to be happening this venture with these audience. Can we have other things you want to pontificate when it comes to before we have into our very own little game?


Drew:

After all, I’m not sure. I Experienced a huge summer, but I guess situations comes up because the attacks come-along, but…


Christina:

Yeah, I really don’t would like you to load it all right in front.


Drew:

You do not need us to ruin anything?


Christina:

Yeah. Load it-all right in front? My God, exactly what a terrible sentence.


Drew:

It sounded a little bit sexual, but additionally I really had a lot more of a considered similar—


Christina:

It did!


Drew:

I thought a lot more though that you were leaving Residence Depot and were like stepping into your car, that we understand there’s no necessity, but which was also where my head is actually, that also might be intimate.


Christina:

In addition only love that the thing which is maintaining myself from probably Home Depot is a car and not the person who i will be. Like every time I’ve been at property Depot, some body is like, “Ma’am have you been lost? Are you presently secure right here?” And I’m love, “No, honestly. A whole lot timber around. I am not safe.” Therefore I have a casino game for Drew because we like to play video games.


Drew:

I am listening.


Christina:

And I also decided, throughout respect of myself and all of our guest, that the would definitely end up being some intro in to the world of fanfic for Drew. Just what We have done is I’ve taken five programs from Drew’s preferred Characters in Television number, and I am planning to study you some tags from AO3’s fanfiction and you are clearly planning to must imagine which of shows these labels tend to be referring to. I’ll start common, they have more particular on the program while we go along.


Drew:

Okay. I Simply have some concerns—


Christina:

Of course you are doing.


Drew:

Because I am not sure a lot regarding fanfic globe. Therefore every program has terms which are involving that show?


Christina:

Yes.


Drew:

That range in specificity, i might picture?


Christina:

Yes. Yes, they do.


Drew:

And so should you decide desired to get a hold of a show that had like, I am not sure, medieval occasions you could potentially strike the medieval label.


Christina:

I’ll say that I didn’t get a hold of any medieval instances labels in virtually any of these shows. Love to notice it.


Drew:

Well, that’s not my flavor, but I happened to be just putting some thing out.


Christina:

Yes.


Drew:

Because I guess inside my mind, I found myself like, oh, well, if you are reading fanfic, you are looking for reveals that have actually characters you want. But that’s not at all times the scenario. Often you’re checking for a subject and then you can find out programs from the fanfic?


Christina:

You could potentially. That would be a strange strategy to address fanfic because most men and women treat it knowing the ship they usually have at heart. Following it is said, I would like to study maybe an alternative universe version of this fanfic. Probably i’d like some hurt convenience. Possibly i’d like a slow burn. Possibly i recently want some upright smut. There are many places for which folks get. And then addititionally there is just extra tags, letting you know the kind of flavor and feeling from the story. And we’re going to go taste and feeling. Because obviously vessels deliver it out and an alternative market is certainly not particularly beneficial per the program, therefore wewill end up being specific towards the show.


Drew:

Okay, cool. Why don’t we hop in it.


Christina:

All right.


Drew:

Let us find out collectively. Yeah.


Christina:

Okay. Your first one. We are going to start out with fictional politics, compliments kink, abandonment issues, very slow burn.


Drew:

Compliments kink, political… imaginary politics?


Christina:

Fictional politics, yes.


Drew:

Does that mean like politics which happen to be grounded for the real-world, but they are fictional or totally imaginary politics?


Christina:

You will findn’t take a look at fic in question, but I’m presuming it means entirely fictional politics.


Drew:

Okay.


Christina:

We are able to continue.


Drew:

Yeah, keep working.


Christina:

History misuse, harmed comfort, I need comfortable things to stay and thus will you. Entertaining label. Simply must read that certain.


Drew:

Okay, hold off. Maybe i will just take another and think about what my favorite shows are. Okay. Because I’m trying to think of the indicates that have actually politics inside them. Oh wait, is it

The L Term?


Christina:

This package is certainly not

The L Term.

No.


Drew:

Because that comes with artificial politics.


Christina:

It does.


Drew:

Because Bette operates for mayor. I am not sure should you understand that.


Christina:

Oh, I do.


Drew:

Okay, why don’t we see. The Other…

Vida

has politics.


Christina:


Vida

has actually politics.


Drew:

Is it

Vida?


Christina:

Unfortuitously,

Vida

do not have any fanfics.


Drew:

Oh, exactly what?


Christina:

I’m sure. So folks, will it.


Drew:

Folks, access that. I would personally read that fanfic.


Christina:

Men and women, will it.


Drew:

Okay. Let’s see. How Many Other…


Christina:

I am able to keep working.


Drew:

Keep going. Yeah.


Christina:

Cat and mouse. Possessive conduct.


Drew:

Oh, oh,

Killing Eve.


Christina:

There you are going.


Drew:

Cat and mouse got myself. Oh, reward kink. Yeah. Okay, its all pressing. Its all clicking.


Christina:

Almost everything clicks. It-all ticks. It had been additionally a challenge because I got to obtain types that have been certain sufficient to the program, but in addition like, it may surprise one to know there’s a lot of praise kink things nowadays.


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Just like a ton. The same as quite a bit.


Drew:

I really believe that. I love the society.


Christina:

I know. One of these is not on the variety of favored shows and/or preferred television characters because a number of your favorite TV shows didn’t have fics, which was sad.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

But this might be a tv series we now have talked-about quite a bit and that I think you’ll receive it.


Drew:

Okay.


Christina:

At some point. This might be going to be so easy available, personally i think.


Drew:

Oh, Jesus. Force.


Christina:

Male friendship. Mentally repressed.


Drew:


Searching?


Christina:

No.


Drew:


Ted Lasso?


Christina:

Yep. Yep.


Drew:

Like, what demonstrates carry out we watch with guys? Okay, why don’t we try the gay any. Nope. Why don’t we take to the straight one.


Christina:

Yeah, others any was going to end up being “team connection” and that I had been like, which is an easy one. There is a simple one. Fine. Let’s see. Canon fictional character passing, LGBTQ personality of color. There is a tongue twister obtainable. Groups of option. Mummy girl commitment.


Drew:


Awareness 8?


Christina:

No. in your community, I would state. I would say in that region.


Drew:


Pose?


Christina:

Yeah. The second any would definitely be canon gender work, so — fine, we have two more.


Drew:

Okay. I favor it.


Christina:

Jealousy. I’m afraid of your next event because I don’t trust the authors. A literal label on this subject fic. Iconic.


Drew:

Okay. I mean, I don’t believe

Glee

is found on my personal record, but that is what I would very first consider.


Christina:

It isn’t

Glee.

I don’t consider

Glee

had been on any databases.


Drew:

It isn’t really.


Christina:

But funny point. Ex-lovers to friends back again to fans trope, family feels, relationship. An extended awaited reunion.


Drew:

Ex-lovers to pals back. So is this

The L word?


Christina:

It is

The L phrase.


Drew:

Okay. I found myself like, ex-lovers to friends to ex… Yeah, the ex-lovers.


Christina:

The sad most important factor of

The L term

fanfic will be the shocking level of Bette Tina fanfic can be like, y’all require to…


Drew:

You know, I think we would have a reason to get involved with this afterwards. That is slightly tease for the primary topic.


Christina:

Fine. Anxiety.


Drew:

Okay.


Christina:

Bittersweet ending.


Drew:


Freaks and Geeks?


Christina:

Close — no, not near. Really don’t must sit to you personally.


Drew:

I don’t know why. I recently took a jab at anxiety and bittersweet ending. That’s only type of my thing.


Christina:

Yeah. That’s true. That’s most evident. Romance (extremely sad). That’s in parentheses, the sad.


Drew:

And it’s perhaps not

The Leftovers.


Christina:

It isn’t

The Leftovers.

I am not going to provide this-


Drew:

Okay. I’m going to be capable of getting this. So angst.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).


Drew:

Bittersweet closing.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Romance parenthesis sad.


Drew:

Romance, extremely unfortunate.


Christina:

Unresolved sexual tension.


Drew:

This can be all. This is just me. This is like every thing. This could possibly just be anything.


Christina:

Yeah, introducing fanfic, girl.


Drew:

Ooh. After all, wow. What a welcome.


Christina:

Pining is an additional one.


Drew:

Just how is this in the same family members? Okay, wait, I would ike to remember shows that Everyone loves which are gay and then have an angst. Pining.


Christina:

I shall say this show isn’t homosexual.


Drew:

Oh.


Christina:

However it is a reveal that i understand you like.


Drew:

Ooh.


Christina:

Would you like one which’s going to provide it with out?


Drew:

I Actually Do think we have to access with the podcast—


Christina:

I really do.


Drew:

However, if it had been only you and i love hanging out as buddies, i’d resemble, no, no, no, give me an one half hour. But okay, provide myself usually the one.


Christina:

Blasphemy, spiritual injury.


Drew:


Fleabag.


Christina:

Truth be told there it really is.


Drew:

Here it’s.

Fleabag

is a reveal that given that a few of the crazy society around it offers gone away and it’s in contrast to these annoying people’s personalities, i am similar, incredible tv series.


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Only a great tv series.


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Just what the, great tv plan. Which was lots of fun. Thank you.


Christina:

When.


Drew:

And I’d like to just create a public-service… No, that is not the goals. The same as a request to people that Needs some

Vida

fanfic. I’ll see clearly. I am not sure whom I want it to be between. Possibly it can be, what is it known as when it’s like two… We performed this. We did this during the TV staff. We performed like a cross… what is the term because of it? What’s it if it is like numerous programs?


Christina:

Yeah. Cross… Cross… That thing. I understand what you’re claiming. I can’t think about the phrase. We’re able to bring all of our guest in. I’m sure they understand the word.


Drew:

Okay. We will get into the major topic we can bring in our very own guest so her mind does not explode as she’s attempting to tell us this word. Guest, want to introduce yourself?


Heather:

Yes. Hello, this really is Heather Hogan. Im an Autostraddle author and publisher. And in most cases whenever I hear this podcast, I perform along like it’s a-game show whenever y’all do your games. It absolutely was very difficult for my situation to-be quiet although this was happening.


Christina:

I happened to be like, this might be gonna be truly fun, but it is also will be so very hard for me to do this and Heather just be hushed.


Heather:

Yeah. My personal favorite up to now has been, “Who Said It: Drew or Sappho?”


Christina:

Thank-you.


Heather:

And I ended up being undoubtedly cheering like I became on

The Purchase Price Is Correct.

I became love, “Christina, no it is Drew! Its Drew! Its Drew! No, it really is Sappho!” However did great. You probably didn’t also require my help at this video game.


Christina:

Re-listening to that particular one, I found myself love, really, damn i recognize my friends slash i assume the written text of Sappho.


Heather:

You did well.


Drew:

You smashed it. I also experienced… to make certain the overall game worked, I attempted it on several men and women. People that do know myself a lot better than you are doing, Christina, in addition they all would never exercise. Thus I had been very pleased by you.


Christina:

Appears like i am a winner, that’s what matters.


Drew:

Heather, tell us just what that term is actually for our fanfiction.


Heather:

It’s simply crossover.


Christina:

Its a crossover, yeah!


Drew:

Crossover! Oh, okay. Okay. I thought there was some fancy word for this. But anyways, if someone wants to compose

Vida

fanfic which is a crossover, it really is something else that I like. I would like to see a lot more of it. So the primary subject recently is not fanfic. Truly long-term interactions. Because, Heather, the length of time are you presently inside present union?


Heather:

I have already been using my wife for 11 years.


Drew:

Oh, which is a long time.


Christina:

Drew, perhaps you have accomplished everything consistently for 11 decades? Because We undoubtedly have not.


Drew:

No, not gender. You will findn’t accomplished any such thing. Just what have We {done|completed|acco
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